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Misc => The Lounge => Topic started by: Will on October 17, 2006, 12:30:01 pm
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oh I'm so in love ;D ;D
I consulted with a friend of mine that I should send this girl an SMS to tell her about my feelings cause we are in different schools now and are not in the same shift.
So I sent her an sms and told her how I dunno how to describe the feeling i have for her and that I didn't had the courage to tell her before. So I've snet it and waited.
A couple of mins later she replies and says that she just wants friendship and nothing more because dating and all isn't her thing now( dunnow why) .She also said sorry and got in a smilie :o
So my question is , should I continue my quest to win her heart ?
Should I just say that it's all fine now and be sortry for the rest of my life that I've passed a chance with this wonderful girl , or just let everything go to hell?
I just wanna see your opinions since I never saw some romantic threads or anything similiar to this on soldatforums.
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Be happy that you tried. I'ms orry it didn't work out but thats how life is.
You shouldn't force her onto you. You could hng around her more but she might never 'like' you.
The important part is telling her, its a pain in the ass not telling someone, just eats you away.
At least you didn't get the reply I got once.
me:
I love you
her:
okay then
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to bad for you.
The point is that I've kept this inside of me for a long time and I've felt that I'm gonna smash someone if I didn't told her. And that was the hardest part. She knew that something was going on , but telling her was just weird.
I don't want to force her on anything but I heard that she had broken up with her boyfriend sometime ago and I thought she got over it...
Edit: and I got this strange feeling that the message she sent me kinda isn't honest.
Maybe she just wanted to say piss of in a gentler way??
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Well I'd give her room. From the message it appears that she still likes you as a friend (obviously) however you may have to ask friends if they think she thinks so. Hard to ask without giving your position away.
I still think you should hang around with her as a friend, it gets annoying as you like her and you can't 'be' with her. But I think that will enfroce the relationship as it is slightly damaged after getting rejected (sorry about the harsh words).
All in all I think you can still be her friend but because I don't actually know her I can't say anything for sure.
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seems that you are quite experienced in that area...
too bad you don't have msn , or have you?
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Sent you a personal message if you didn't notice.
Continuing my part of the discussion on that.
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You should have confronted her in person, not over a text message.
Its the little things that matter.
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Yea but it's kinda hard to reach her now. I have to wait for weekend to meet her and I couldn't wait for that. And it's even more harder face to face
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Keep trying and dont give up ;) ( well, you can do a break when ull accidentally get slapped ).
Try meeting her some more or something :P
Make friendship with her friends if you know some, then they could tell her that you're their friend. Or something similar.
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and I got this strange feeling that the message she sent me kinda isn't honest.
Don't act on that feeling. Even if she said something to you face to face and you didn't think she was being honest, there's a reason why she would be lying to you.
The best you can do is to be her friend. And, since she knows you like her, if she ever develops feelings for you she'll come around. If not, at least you have a friend instead of a stalkee.
There are other fish in the sea, by the way.
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I have no good things to say to you. Can't offer any help at all.
What little love life I have is/was really bad.
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I understand why, dating sucks....seriously, I hate it.
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She replied that way because she doesn't wanna go out with you, but she's too nice to tell you no. How do I know this ? I found the hard way.
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Move on, because she obviously doesn't want to go out with you. If you don't move on, you're going to pass up on other girls while 'waiting' for this one chick.
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Maybe ask her out yourself? I think girls find the "Messenger" tactic a little elementary. I was about to ask a girl out the other day and then she starts talking about her boyfriend ): What pisses me off the most is the fact that she always flirts with me.
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The ultimate way to get a girl is to beat up her boyfriend.
PS: LARRIOT!
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You could pursue it if you do in fact have a chance. Otherwise, please try not to dwell on it. Tribulation is what you'll gain from that :/. If she doesn't want to be with you in that sense, then there isn't much you can do. So, from what I can see, you have two choices in these predicaments: suffer it, or get over it. Whatever you want to do.
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and I got this strange feeling that the message she sent me kinda isn't honest.
Don't act on that feeling. Even if she said something to you face to face and you didn't think she was being honest, there's a reason why she would be lying to you.
The best you can do is to be her friend. And, since she knows you like her, if she ever develops feelings for you she'll come around. If not, at least you have a friend instead of a stalkee.
There are other fish in the sea, by the way.
VijchtiDoodah is wise beyond his years, listen to him ;)
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Just keep on talking to her as a freind. Eventually she will changer her mind about not wanting a bf and if she likes you enough as a friend by then, she might consider to raise your freindship relationship to the next level.
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A thread where I'm actually being nice. ;)
Go with what Vijcht said (and as cookie also implied).
Theres this one girl I liked, I asked her plain and simple if she would like to go out with me. She said "I don't know, dating isn't really my thing...". I was patient and left her be to herself. About a month later we went out on a date, and we continue to do so now. Give her time and room to think. She did say "right now" didn't she?
And this is a little easier for me to do, but if you doubt the honesty of her message then ask her if even though she doesn't want to now, if she ever would want to. Not trying to be to pushy, but thats my advice. A broken heart will heal if she turns you down, just a little slowely.
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Stalk her. Girls love that ;)
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There are other fish in the sea, by the way.
Hehe. Maybe I need to talk to you sometime. I seem to be having trouble getting over a certain someone, though my efforts to do so have just tripled.
Anyway, Will, the best statement I can give you is this: No hope is crushed when there is no hope to begin with. ;)
Oh, and good luck.
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Maybe it would have been hard to face her in person, but it shows true emotion and meaning that youre serious.
A text can always be disregarded information, kinda like an instant message.
If you saw her then she'll always remember the way you looked at her or she could hear the anticipation in your voice.
Like I said, the little things.
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Maybe it would have been hard to face her in person, but it shows true emotion and meaning that youre serious.
A text can always be disregarded information, kinda like an instant message.
If you saw her then she'll always remember the way you looked at her or she could hear the anticipation in your voice.
Like I said, the little things.
Agreed with and applauded for that.
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Yeah, telling her using an IM or phone or anything that's not in person is generally a bad idea.
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There are other fish in the sea, by the way.
Hehe. Maybe I need to talk to you sometime. I seem to be having trouble getting over a certain someone, though my efforts to do so have just tripled.
Anyway, Will, the best statement I can give you is this: No hope is crushed when there is no hope to begin with. ;)
Oh, and good luck.
This is a problem many guys have, there's even a word for it in the PUA community: One-itis. You just gotta remember, a girl is a girl, one is not better than the other.
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Girls are annoying, they flirt with everybody, they piss you off, they spend all your money...I'm trying to find one that odesn't do that, but's hawt and nice. Wish me good luck?
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Hey, first post, long-time lurker.
Karmazon: One girl is not better than another? I beg to differ..
I recently found a girl, who basically asked me out (weird, eh?), but I said yes, and we dated for about a month. All of a sudden, she ends it, and I dont find out until next weekend that she and one of my good friends are now going out.
To be continued..
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Ahh, love's a bitch, isn't it? ;)
The sms thing probably wasn't the greatest idea, mate, but I don't think that's what caused you to 'lose'. In all probability, as you suggested yourself, she isn't completely ready for a new realationship, or perhaps, and I mean no offends, she just isn't interrested in one with you. The guys above are right in saying you should just go with the friends thing, and you need tyo keep cool about her. If she becomes interrested at some point, she'll let you know, right? Don't be all, "Man, I've given up", though. Girls like to watch us suffer for the cause :D
You know, looking at this thread, I think some really great things have been said. Alot of good advice has been written, and they're definitely worth remembering. Forumers, you never sieze to amaze me :)
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O you know what I hate, the cute ones that like you but you don't really like them but you think there vute, and then they say they like you, but then they go out with another guy 3 seconds later, and your like whatfuck.
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Stalk her. Girls love that ;)
If that were true..... *sighs* oh how I wish that were true.
Xochielt ;_;
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Grinelda ;_;
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Dude I know what you're going though. I get insane crushes on girls and it almost never works out. Be friends... flirt(nothing to much, subtle flirting) if she comes around awsome. Until she comes around view her as a friend, its not fun to still view her as a crush and try to be a friend. Still be sure you really are friends, it hurst but sometimes you gotta admit she doesn't want to be near you.
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Yeah...messsaging her to tell her how you felt probably ****ed the whole thing.From experience-
girls would usually rather you tell them to their face,if anything they like it cause they see that you aren't scared to tell them face to face.
And yeah,don't try to pursue her too quickly.
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girls would usually rather you tell them to their face,if anything they like it cause they see that you aren't scared to tell them face to face.
A little caveat: if you're not sure whether they like you or not, do it by proxy. It's better to play games and make it easier for her to say "No, I don't really like you" and still act normal than take the unecessary risk and have one or both of you become really awkward around eachother. As silly as those games are, they're there to keep you in good spirits while you're inexperienced -- use them.
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girls would usually rather you tell them to their face,if anything they like it cause they see that you aren't scared to tell them face to face.
A little caveat: if you're not sure whether they like you or not, do it by proxy. It's better to play games and make it easier for her to say "No, I don't really like you" and still act normal than take the unecessary risk and have one or both of you become really awkward around eachother. As silly as those games are, they're there to keep you in good spirits while you're inexperienced -- use them.
True stuff, when I was in 7th grade I asked a girl to a dance and she turned me down in front of like half the class. Talk about embarrassing.
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I feel dumb...I don't know what a caveat is...
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And you guys gotta realize something. Men choose women based on replication value. Women choose men based on replication AND survival value. What it means to you, is that they have to get to know you to make that decision. And I don't blame them, they don't wanna go out with a guy who doesn't have enough confidence to ask them out in person. You need to create not only attraction but connection and rapport. I could go on and on forever about this.
One girl is not better than the other in a sense that if one turns you down, find another one, not a big deal seriously. Go out and be social, meet new people.
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I feel dumb...I don't know what a caveat is...
Caveat (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/caveat)
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from personal experince your an idiot.. if you want the truth about girls you have to find the one thats rare the one thats not a slut they might not act it but behind your back there Giving blow jobs and taking it like a woman.. Girls younger and in the teenage state love sex They might not act it..
that personally turns me away from them i always must have her from when shes a virgin on but thats personal prefrence i dont know how you do it but shes in another school shes probley goign under the desk doing stuff to people if ya know what i mean
Yea i sound like an asshole but i would give up on that and try to find someone closer to you and someone you know a bit more get to know her
I know this because im a wh0re my self
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Woah, you're either extremely paranoid, or you've watched waaaay too much porn! :D Girls aren't like this, man. I wish they were, but they ain't.
Okay, so you blew this one, tough luck. Don't let the world(or Carl) get you down, keep on your toes. She's not the only girl in the world, you know, so get back out there.
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True stuff, when I was in 7th grade I asked a girl to a dance and she turned me down in front of like half the class. Talk about embarrassing.
Its because you look like Shrek...
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BACK OFF.
Seriously, you don't want to look like some creepy stalker.
Girls are annoying, they flirt with everybody, they piss you off, they spend all your money
Bitter much?
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oh I'm so in love ;D ;D
I consulted with a friend of mine that I should send this girl an SMS to tell her about my feelings cause we are in different schools now and are not in the same shift.
So I sent her an sms and told her how I dunno how to describe the feeling i have for her and that I didn't had the courage to tell her before. So I've snet it and waited.
A couple of mins later she replies and says that she just wants friendship and nothing more because dating and all isn't her thing now( dunnow why) .She also said sorry and got in a smilie :o
Probably a mistake to send a Sega Master System as a token of love. :-\
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Girls are annoying, they flirt with everybody, they piss you off, they spend all your money
Ok thats a bit harsh. I have a girlfriend, we don't exactly 'flirt' with others, more like having fun. All we do is pretend we hate each other and love everyone else. Obviously we're not always stabbingat each other, but pointing out the others 'flaws' strengthens the relationship. "Piss you off?" obviously haven't met the right person yet. "Spend all my money" So far I have spent nothing on her other than souvenirs from when I went to places.
Basically that is completely wrong, actually look for a real girl Dascoo.
This is a good thread and several people can benfit from it. I like the ideas proposed here even though I may disagree with some. Like Echo, I'm surprised how forumers can unite and help people in need then act like **** 60 seconds later in another thread.
I prefer the method of telling the girl not in person, but not by texting. I prefer MSN or Skype. Email and texting is too crude, but face to face lets you see their reaction and reuires a more abrupt answer. I prefer 'my' method because it gives them some time to think and you can't see their reaction which if bad could make it worse.
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Well then your lucky you have girls like that around your place :D
Like I said I'm not a very lucky person...the only person I could think of that I probably was thinking about going out with, and people were like YOU SHOULD GO OUT WITH HER, then decided not too because we were good friends, and I didn't really really really like her...She then goes out with some other guy, but for some reason I regret not going out with her.....
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One girl is not better than the other in a sense that if one turns you down, find another one, not a big deal seriously. Go out and be social, meet new people.
The two things I gathered from that were that relationships really are as pointless as I think they are, and that only social people will succeed at them. So I may have been right all along. I would rather not sacrifice my lifestyle so I could have the pleasure of failing to "snag one" over and over again, until I finally do, and then have to look for another two weeks later.
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The two things I gathered from that were that relationships really are as pointless as I think they are, and that only social people will succeed at them.
Relationships aren't pointless. They're the best cure for depression and inertia I've ever seen, and they'll make you feel much better even if you think you're happy. At the very least, they're practice for the future, Kaz. At most, they'll make your life full. At their worst, there's always make-up sex. :)
And some of the strongest relationships I've ever seen were between introverted people. So don't worry if you aren't social.
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Aaaah this sucks...the only one I can tihnk of I kinda think is cute, my friend likes...and I feel sorry for him because he has no chance.
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All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits. ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!
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your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times :o
What Works!:
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning ;) Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique :) tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!
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All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits. ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!
Sorry I'm empathetic, and any bad thing I do I feel bad about...unless it's something I had to do to survive.
your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times :o
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning ;) Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique :) tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!
Yes, teasing actually works....oddly.
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ffs... don't listen to these losers, they know nothing of love and asking women out
just freakin kill her already
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She can't say no if she's dead.
Just throwing it out there.
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NEVER force yourself on her
I didn't mean this is a dirty way either.....
ffs... don't listen to these losers, they know nothing of love and asking women out
just freakin kill her already
She can't say no if she's dead.
Just throwing it out there.
Funnily enough these are true.....but jesus christ.....what a way to add your bit....MAKE THE FARKING THING MEANINGFUL.....there are rules o posting you know...
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All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits. ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!
Sorry I'm empathetic, and any bad thing I do I feel bad about...unless it's something I had to do to survive.
your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times :o
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning ;) Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique :) tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!
Yes, teasing actually works....oddly.
Why oddly ? Attraction is not logical. The logical thing to do for a guy is to be nice to a girl. Don't be nice. Don't seek her approval. Be yourself and convey that you are the selector not the selectee(?).
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A partly Agree, K. Allthough I don't see why you have to be either of those two. Can't you just agree on it? Whatever happened to be two about this?
"Takes two to tango" Ô_o
Anyway, the funny thing about love is that you never know where it takes you. That's why it's so great, and that's why you always get that funny feeling in your belly. It's like a small adventure.
It's actually pretty similar to religion; it is what you make of it, and you're the one who dicedes how far to take it. Well, depending on how far the opposite part is prepared to take it, obviously.
Love.. Just Do It!
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She can't say no if she's dead.
Just throwing it out there.
good point. that means you'll have to do all the work...
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@ aqua : just shut up okay ? ( We kicked him outta our clan because he was just bringing n00bs and now he's retaliating)
ontopic: I talked to her and said I didn't want to ruin our friendship and all , and that we shouldn't be feeling awkward . She then said that it wasn't because of me but because she broke up with her boyfriend ( he cheated on her) and she couldn't stand another relationship RIGHT now.
So prolly yea , I have a chance with her , I just have to be patient . And in the meantime I won't be stalking on her(as some individuals said it was the right thing to do :D) and I will just try to be the best friend and give her some space to recover.
Guys you could just throw any new ideas here cause someone else surely has similiar problems and as someone pointed out (I forgot who) this would help allot of peole
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Best way to get a girl to like you? Just be nice. If she drops something, pick it up etc.
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Best way to get a girl to like you? Just be nice. If she drops something, pick it up etc.
That doesn't work. She'll just say wtf....fuck off pervert.
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Wha..? What kind of girls do you live by?
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Real ones.
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Huh. Must be older girls. Im not quite in highschool yet.
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I'm in grade 9...Hey I would be pretty freaked out to see some guy picking up my books if I dropped thewm right in front of me...not if it landed at his feet or something.
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Best way to get a girl to like you? Just be nice. If she drops something, pick it up etc.
That does not work. Attractive girls are used to guys being nice to them, they take it for granted. Guys will do nice thing, only because of her looks. Also friends are nice to each other. You don't want to be friends with a girl, you want to PIITB.
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piitb = put it in the butt?
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piitb = put it in the butt?
PIITB cannot be summed up by words alone. Give me your address and I'll show you what it is...
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buy her stuff
and if she doesn't want it... follow her home
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Nah, the only real thing you can do is pay her extra attention (not in a stalkish, creepy way).
Be nice to her, but be more than a friend.
And to set one thing straight: we (atleast i :3) do like compliments!, it's a shame you almost never hear it from a guy.
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... Will ... I know what you are feeling now. But its really stupid to tell her 'i love you' <sorry ... its just true..>
Hmm... I've fallen in love too :D < ahhh ... my first kiss :D :D today ... :D > and I you be VERY patient if you ..ehm.. want her ( xD ). I don't know what you can do, but just try to be her friend (tested. i've started on that ... :D ) maybe ->SHE<- will ask you about dating? (impossible? NO! )
P.S. My girl .. is .. 18 now ... and ... I am .. eehm.. 3 years younger .. <yes! :D>
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awmagod I didn't say I love her. I know girls hate that( believe me I know). I think my problem is solved . I just have to wait no.
And ffs read the entire thread , not just the beginning , eh?
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Nah, the only real thing you can do is pay her extra attention (not in a stalkish, creepy way).
Be nice to her, but be more than a friend.
And to set one thing straight: we (atleast i :3) do like compliments!, it's a shame you almost never hear it from a guy.
Very good points and I'd like to elaborate.
Attractive girls get approached all the time. They hear "nice scarf, nice shoes, nice hair, nice tattoo" all the time and they know that it all translates to "how about PIITB?".
If you compliment her, be sincere and compliment something non physical. Talk to her, be genuine, find something out about her that REALLY impresses you and then say "wow, that is so cool. Not only you're sexy but you're also smart/have a good fashion sense/like to help people/know kung fu/whatever". Ya rly.
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Will, when a girl says she's not ready for a relationship, it means she's not willing to start a relationship, or she's not interested in you.
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Very good points and I'd like to elaborate.
Attractive girls get approached all the time. They hear "nice scarf, nice shoes, nice hair, nice tattoo" all the time and they know that it all translates to "how about PIITB?".
If you compliment her, be sincere and compliment something non physical. Talk to her, be genuine, find something out about her that REALLY impresses you and then say "wow, that is so cool. Not only you're sexy but you're also smart/have a good fashion sense/like to help people/know kung fu/whatever". Ya rly.
Hey! One of the first that understands the females ;D.
Will you should listen to karmazon, he's one of the few that knows how it's done :P
Will, when a girl says she's not ready for a relationship, it means she's not willing to start a relationship, or she's not interested in you.
I speak with experience, it could also be because she is afraid, think it's going to fast, or is shy.
Keep that in mind Will, it could be she does like you only that it's not the right time (yet) ;)
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I speak with experience, it could also be because she is afraid, think it's going to fast, or is shy.
Keep that in mind Will, it could be she does like you only that it's not the right time (yet) ;)
if that's what you call experience, your profession won't be DR.Love ..
if a girl likes someone and that certain someone suddenly sends an SMS saying he likes her, that girl won't hesitate to say she likes him too, aslong as she's not super-shy or overly paranoid from exploiters, in that case, she'll make an excuse but still make a very obvious hint that his way towards her is golden.
hate it or love it, "im not ready" is an excuse or a way to say "no" in a nicer way.
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Best way to get a girl to like you? Just be nice. If she drops something, pick it up etc.
That does not work. Attractive girls are used to guys being nice to them, they take it for granted. Guys will do nice thing, only because of her looks. Also friends are nice to each other. You don't want to be friends with a girl, you want to PIITB.
Yeah, very true, very true. The guys do not care about her attitude, spirit, etc.
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awmagod I didn't say I love her.
I know that you didn't said this .. directly, but she knows what u have on mind :P
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if that's what you call experience, your profession won't be DR.Love ..
if a girl likes someone and that certain someone suddenly sends an SMS saying he likes her, that girl won't hesitate to say she likes him too, aslong as she's not super-shy or overly paranoid from exploiters, in that case, she'll make an excuse but still make a very obvious hint that his way towards her is golden.
hate it or love it, "im not ready" is an excuse or a way to say "no" in a nicer way.
Believe me when i say that we think about it more than boys do.
If a boy says he loves her thats already a very big step, because it usually starts with i like you and not declaring love at the first moment. :P
And btw tnx for calling me paranoid :-\.
I think a girl would know a bit more about how her gender is than a male does, but i guess youre god or smthing ::)
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I wouldn't leave it be. It was just an sms and well for me words don't work. I hate talking even on the telephone with my girlfriend because i can't see the expression on her face. Anyhows, i'd take up her offer for being friends, and get to know her better and move on from there...
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make a myspace and put her in your top friends
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Describe her. General information's great and all, but it could be the wrong thing when applied to the wrong girl.
Oh and pix. That would help.
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I don't I want pics....ends up being a butterface or something.
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Pics arent needed to see how someone is, but tell a bit about her personality, then we can help out!
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She's tall , long black hair , blue eyes , great full lips and ummm... she had a great butt and a C cup
She has changed allot since 8ht grade . She kinda more mature now , not behaving like a little girls as
before. Thats why I got in love (again). and those lips , oh my god I just wanna take her in my arms and
kiss her forever!!
If I did have a pic I wouldn't show it to all of ya perverts out there. I got attracted to
her
because of her
cheerful personality and her quick wits . She's really mature , she just doesn't show it
and she's a lil bit quirky sometimes
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Ok now I want pics.
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Don't listen to LiZz, we're not pervs. We're just concerend that you don't end up with a, as dascoo so eloquently put it, "butterface". It's not like we're going to find her and show her you showed pics of her online. No one even knows you or lives near you.
Anyways, tell a bit about her personality and her life, anything you think is importatnt and you want us to know. Girls can be generalized, but they're very individual. What can get you kisses from one girl can get you castration from the next.
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Don't listen to LiZz, we're not pervs. We're just concerend that you don't end up with a, as dascoo so eloquently put it, "butterface". It's not like we're going to find her and show her you showed pics of her online. No one even knows you or lives near you.
Anyways, tell a bit about her personality and her life, anything you think is importatnt and you want us to know. Girls can be generalized, but they're very individual. What can get you kisses from one girl can get you castration from the next.
Exactly my point, maybe i did just put it wrong :P.
(Why else do i ask about her personality instead of pics ::))
But the way you described her i would say she's very outgoing.
Try to hang out more with her, thats all you can really do at this time because she did kinda turn you down (sorry if i said that to harsh)
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You guys might not be pervs, but I certainly am.
I've been waiting this whole thread for him to post pics.
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Slow and steady wins the race.
How old are you, just so I can put this all into perspective.
It sounds like you are in high school given the fact you said shes changed alot since eigth grade. Its best to become good friends during high school and see what happens afterwards.
Im 21 and its really hard to keep relationships that start in high school, alot of heart break can happen that way. The reason I say wait is because life after high school can f things up, what with college happening and all.
My ex and I went through this situation, we became best friends since 10th grade, finally asked her out my senior year but a year later she moved off to college and we had to take a break from being together; there was just too much stress of not being able to cope with the distance and longing.
So like I said, just become someone thats close to her and youll always have her in your life, its better then losing her after something tragic could have been avoided.
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get her drunk and errrr......buy her some food.
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I disliked grade 8....especially the end. :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
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That's easy. Become her uber-best friend, then just kiss her. If she turns you down, you'll lose nothing.
BTW she sounds just the way I like my girls.
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I feel dumb...I don't know what a caveat is...
thanks.
Caveat (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/caveat)
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Milkman , trust me , I'm a pervert to . And it's a shame that I don't have her pics. If I get them you'll be the first to see them XD. Anyways , I'm 15 years old. I don't know how many grades you have in the US
but I'm from Croatia and there we have :
8 grades Elementary school
4 grades Highschool
4 years College
We have different schools for different jobs like Medical schools(thats where she's going) , Electrotehnics school (thats me) , Economics and some other schools like Gimnasiums where people learn the same stuff like in elementary (only harder) and some new classes like sociology and latin language. There's also some 3 year Highschool and are for those with really low grades in elementary school and people ussually don't go to college after that. You nguys have to understand that all the world doesn't have the same schooling system like the US
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link to her myspace... i need some hot croacian people
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In my opinion, there is no problem!
Just be her friend...or you'll lose her 4ever? It seems you didn't want to...
And remeber : girls are changing in every second :D
I wish u good luck .. and have fun? :P
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why'd you think she has myspace. She just moved and she doesn't have internet acces yet
omg... my$pace sucks
Micro$oft sucks
M$N sucks Trilian FTW
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why would you think she doesn't have myspace? she could have made one before she moved when she had internet access...
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The whole replace S with $ is retarded...Papa$urf ::)
And she should have a myspace. Most girls do, at least over here. Just take a pic off that sinse she uploaded it and expects people to see it anyways.
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Why $hould $he have a my$pace?? Over here girls have blogs and not myspace. Anyway she doesn't have any of that. Most girls round here aren't interested in computers or internet and they are really shy about their pictures
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Yeah here, girls put there faces allover the internet, and your faces too.
I tell them that there gonna get raped, but they just don't listen :-\
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Then give me and Milkman their myspace adresses . I'll get some pics from girls on the chat . They only trust you if you send ur pic first
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Haha, No. I'm not opening my msn, I'm hiding from someone.
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sign in with offline status 8)
BTW what do people have against you . Such a bad karma... ;D
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And remeber : undeveloped girls are changing in every second :D
I always wanted a wand that instantly aged young girls. Just because I'm a closet pedophile.
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I hate young girls. I have to catch the bus with 'em every day (school days) and all they know how to do is scream. They are sitting right next to each other and they scream. Basically everyone on the bus turns around and yells "For ***** sake shut up!"
Wait a few more years and then they are tolerable. Maybe its just British girls....probably.
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Believe me this hapens here every day. These lil girls just scream and laugh and start jumping in the bus and they are so jerked up if they see another of their friends coming to them .
Vij join da club :-P
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I remember one year after I graduated high school I went back for a basketball game and started checking out chicks, then I realized they were still in highschool. I felt so creepy after that, I just watched the game and left.
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Forget her shes blowing someone right now.. Go find someone you can trust.
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And remeber : undeveloped girls are changing in every second :D
I always wanted a wand that instantly aged young girls. Just because I'm a closet pedophile.
If you finally get one, let me borrow it and reverse what it does. I LOEV loli :)))
I'm not even joking about that either :/ I'm such a paedo :(
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I remember one year after I graduated high school I went back for a basketball game and started checking out chicks, then I realized they were still in highschool. I felt so creepy after that, I just watched the game and left.
You should have probably looked around you and noticed all the older men in the stands. If they werent there with family or supporting their child in the game, odds are they are scopin the stands for some USDA grade a prime meat.
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I hate young girls. I have to catch the bus with 'em every day (school days) and all they know how to do is scream. They are sitting right next to each other and they scream. Basically everyone on the bus turns around and yells "For ***** sake shut up!"
Wait a few more years and then they are tolerable. Maybe its just British girls....probably.
I get some of those on my bus to college. Me and my friends just sit there and sing Flight Of The Conchord songs and they shut up :).
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What's flight of the concohrd??
Guess I'll wiki it...