It's not that much of a surprise, really; I mean, how many males have a multi-tailed-fox avatar?
Anyways, yeah, theres some people you should listen to (I'm not one of them), and some people you shouldn't take too seriously. You can usually tell by their avatar and signature. I won't tell you, because it would ruin the fun of finding out.
Have a nice stay, mind your speelign, grammar/