Less Friends... Better?

[Demonic]

Okay troll-wannabes, get the fuck out.

Panzer; true, I have no idea about your life, but I'm entitled to have my own opinion. Based on my own experiences, having no one to rely on is the worst kind of state to be in: and when all friends fail, the only thing you have is a family ( if you're lucky ). This is why it's more than just some social-training shit ( which is also, in my point of view, faulty, as nowadays we're more exposed to various memes than we are to our own family.. ).

And as for why is the man-woman frienship faulty; the more you like a girl, the more you befriend her, you begin to like her in a 'different' way, and have some other thoughts by natural means. This is completely normal - however, things can go down two ways. Either your by-thoughts prevail, and you find hapyness with a girl friend, or you unnaturally begin to push down the sexual affilation, ending up in a friendship. This may live on for months or even years - but on some level, forcing yourself with something against nature is just wrong, and it's bound to burst out any moment. And that can't really be good, now can it?

[Psycho]

How about multiple female friends? Or having a girlfriend and still having other close female friends.

[Graham]

And as for why is the man-woman frienship faulty; the more you like a girl, the more you befriend her, you begin to like her in a 'different' way, and have some other thoughts by natural means. This is completely normal - however, things can go down two ways. Either your by-thoughts prevail, and you find hapyness with a girl friend, or you unnaturally begin to push down the sexual affilation, ending up in a friendship. This may live on for months or even years - but on some level, forcing yourself with something against nature is just wrong, and it's bound to burst out any moment. And that can't really be good, now can it?

But of your your entire argument is void because not all the guys in the world focus on sex whenever meeting a girl. And since when it is unnatural to not want to have sex with a friend?

[karmazon]

But of your your entire argument is void because not all the guys in the world focus on sex whenever meeting a girl.

Huh?

[Demonic]

If it has a vagina, sex is a natural thought. More over, it's an instinct.

That being said, I atleast have a dozen female friends. Still, supressing an instinct is just not fun.

[Graham]

If it has a vagina, sex is a natural thought. More over, it's an instinct.

That being said, I atleast have a dozen female friends. Still, supressing an instinct is just not fun.

So you are nothing more then a thing that can only think of sex when the hint of a woman passes by?

[KorrupT MerC]

Agree and Disagree demonic...

I have a friend (she's bisexual) that i've known for 2 years, everything we've ever talked about was either agreed on or we had in common with each other (and we talk about everything from sex to candy). Now DESPITE all that, i am still not attracted to her even though she has a vagina.

But then again i befriended one of my exgirlfriends for 4 years, she liked me when i didnt like her but then i liked her when she was over me... so i had to ''hide'' what i felt about her because she was to adamant in her decision to just 'stay friends', which is the most stupid phrase i've ever heard.

It really depends on the situation i guess, but it is possible to have a girl as a friend, you just have to get over the petty ''i want to get in your pants'' syndrome and realise that having a friend of another sex can actually benefit you, if you get them to trust you with whatever, or they are naturally open, then you can ask anything without them retaliating on you and i've had some fun conversations...

[Demonic]

Naturally, attraction being a feeling can die out. If you eat the same food for a month straight, you will be disgusted by it for a long while after that: the same goes for your sex drive when applied to a specific person, only you won't need a month of hog-dirty in'and'out for that to happen. We are humans after all, and feelings are a bit more complicated than instincts, in terms of triggering atleast. We could just get in to talking about Freud at this rate, he hit quite a few nails on the head in this matter.

[LtKillroy]

To: This topic, you can have infinite great friends, but that's hardly possible
To: Demic and such, yes and no. Of course you are probably going to have thoughts of this, but controlling them is key.
"Always make the mind control the body"
~General George S. Patton
(He was talking about exhastion, being hurt, etc. but I think it works for this)

[karmazon]

To: This topic, you can have infinite great friends, but that's hardly possible
To: Demic and such, yes and no. Of course you are probably going to have thoughts of this, but controlling them is key.
"Always make the mind control the body"
~General George S. Patton
(He was talking about exhastion, being hurt, etc. but I think it works for this)

Why wouldn't you want to have sex, why would you want to control that.

[LtKillroy]

To: This topic, you can have infinite great friends, but that's hardly possible
To: Demic and such, yes and no. Of course you are probably going to have thoughts of this, but controlling them is key.
"Always make the mind control the body"
~General George S. Patton
(He was talking about exhastion, being hurt, etc. but I think it works for this)

Why wouldn't you want to have sex, why would you want to control that.

Because the title is about friends. Because a long friendship is worth more than a one night stand IMO. Because you are about garenteed to not go anywhere if we are talking about High School. And I for one value a friendship more than a one night stand with someone. (I honestly doubt it will go farther than that)

[karmazon]

To: This topic, you can have infinite great friends, but that's hardly possible
To: Demic and such, yes and no. Of course you are probably going to have thoughts of this, but controlling them is key.
"Always make the mind control the body"
~General George S. Patton
(He was talking about exhastion, being hurt, etc. but I think it works for this)

Why wouldn't you want to have sex, why would you want to control that.

Because the title is about friends. Because a long friendship is worth more than a one night stand IMO. Because you are about garenteed to not go anywhere if we are talking about High School. And I for one value a friendship more than a one night stand with someone. (I honestly doubt it will go farther than that)

Friendship with a girl? Ew.

[KorrupT MerC]

LOL KARMAZON... sadly i know too many people like you, although, i would have to say why dont you just befriend a girl you get along with and sex up the other 8 billion in the world?

How i view it at least...

[karmazon]

I don't get along with women. I don't have anything in common with them. And why would I befriend a girl in the first place.