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Oh, yeah. I guess I wrote the above fast and didn't really check that I mentioned everything.She was with one of her friends. They both gigled then she said "I have a boyfriend." She didn't seem mad or offended.
Quote from: jrgp on October 16, 2007, 09:53:33 pmOh, yeah. I guess I wrote the above fast and didn't really check that I mentioned everything.She was with one of her friends. They both gigled then she said "I have a boyfriend." She didn't seem mad or offended.Go for the uggos.
...What did she say?
Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him
I am 14. I'm in 9th grade....Me being the abrupt and get straight to the point kind of guy I am, talked to her for like 5 minutes about practically nothing and then asked her out.She was with one of her friends. They both gigled then she said "I have a boyfriend." She didn't seem mad or offended.Yeah, I know that was a REALLY bad decision on my part. That was around two weeks ago. I still really like her. Our eyes meet occasionally, every now and then....What are my options?
Oh, yeah. I forgot to mention that the friends I do have all say she's single. I've been told that chicks sometimes turn guys down with the "I have a bf" phrase so they don't hurt our feelings. I have no idea if there is any truth to that. Is there?
Quote from: jrgp on September 30, 2010, 03:36:50 pmOnly anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.so clearly jgrp is a goddamn anime connoisseur. his opinion might as well be law here.
Only anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.
Best Admin: jrgp, he's like the forum mom and a pet dog rolled into one.
Quote from: KorrupT MerC on October 16, 2007, 10:01:55 pmSince she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him Oh, yeah. I forgot to mention that the friends I do have all say she's single. I've been told that chicks sometimes turn guys down with the "I have a bf" phrase so they don't hurt our feelings. I have no idea if there is any truth to that. Is there?
jrgp, i know what you mean by looking at life different, i've had a life-threatening situations... a couple of times actually :\ but s**t, im still here so f**k itYou dont need to go for the uggo's you just need:Confidence, most women love confidence and will like a guy who is outgoing... but not everyone is like that, but sometimes you have to be outgoing to get what you want... kind of like getting into a good career. Persistance also helps sometimes, but think about it like this, if you ask her and she says no, whats going to happen? absolutely nothing except give you the knowledge that she doesnt like you, this means you wont obsess over her for years and realise ''damn i wasted all that time for nothing''Oh, and you should try to be more social thats how you get around to meet girls and new friends too. Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him
Quote from: KorrupT MerC on October 16, 2007, 10:01:55 pmjrgp, i know what you mean by looking at life different, i've had a life-threatening situations... a couple of times actually :\ but s**t, im still here so f**k itYou dont need to go for the uggo's you just need:Confidence, most women love confidence and will like a guy who is outgoing... but not everyone is like that, but sometimes you have to be outgoing to get what you want... kind of like getting into a good career. Persistance also helps sometimes, but think about it like this, if you ask her and she says no, whats going to happen? absolutely nothing except give you the knowledge that she doesnt like you, this means you wont obsess over her for years and realise ''damn i wasted all that time for nothing''Oh, and you should try to be more social thats how you get around to meet girls and new friends too. Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him *PIC*This is the face of confidence.
*advice* Get a new haircut NOW! At least look sexy before you approach a chick. Also it will boost you confidence. I had worse hair than you (at your age) and also a bit more weight, but after i dropped a few kilo's got my hair looking good, i found that girls will start liking you before you even notice them.
Haircut now... put back on some glasses as well it covers your face. Get some emo frames and vintage clothes from the goodwill and you will have hipster girls all over you.
Quote from: Shivorken on October 16, 2007, 10:18:40 pm*advice* Get a new haircut NOW! At least look sexy before you approach a chick. Also it will boost you confidence. I had worse hair than you (at your age) and also a bit more weight, but after i dropped a few kilo's got my hair looking good, i found that girls will start liking you before you even notice them.Do you mean parting it? Spiking it? Or just shortening it?I'm not exactly light weight. I weigh 130 lbs. I'm 5' 9", btw.
I'm not exactly light weight. I weigh 130 lbs. I'm 5' 9", btw.
I also have a very confident posture and an innocent looking face. I notice that you are slouching in the last pic you put up. Don't slouch. Back straight boy!
Yeah, I noticed my worthless posture and am making attempts to stand / sit up straighter. I still slouch occasionally, especially when I'm really, really tired and in one of the last classes of the day and on the verge of falling asleep.
also grow a beard... its the best ice breaker ever.
Quote from: † on October 16, 2007, 10:46:33 pmalso grow a beard... its the best ice breaker ever.More advice: Don't go to an engineering college. 5:1 ratios are bad.
Quote from: † on October 16, 2007, 10:46:33 pmalso grow a beard... its the best ice breaker ever.Dude. He's 14.I can't even grow a decent beard yet, and I'm 5 years older than he is. =(
Now. Shut yourself up. Why do you need a girlfriend. They don't make your life better or valuable. What are your skills and talents right now? Build your skill, build your talent, and you will make yourself mentally stronger. You will gain respect, strength, confidence, personality, and independence.Who are you? Do you use a girlfriend to define yourself?NoWell then again... It all depends on the reason you want her as your girlfriend. If it's for sex, then is not the advice.
Now. Shut yourself up. Why do you need a girlfriend. They don't make your life better or valuable.
I've had a crush on her since the first day of school when my eyes gazed upon her.
It is NOT for sex. I'm not the kind of person who sees women as sex objects.
Quote from: BondJamesBond on October 16, 2007, 11:12:28 pmNow. Shut yourself up. Why do you need a girlfriend. They don't make your life better or valuable.Yes, because developing a relationship is a really terrible thing for a person.
Quote from: {LAW} Gamer_2k4 on October 16, 2007, 11:22:24 pmQuote from: BondJamesBond on October 16, 2007, 11:12:28 pmNow. Shut yourself up. Why do you need a girlfriend. They don't make your life better or valuable.Yes, because developing a relationship is a really terrible thing for a person.Don't even know how you managed to get that out of my post...
Gamer, i have the same situation, im 18 and have like 20/30 chin hairs max : but my friend is only 16 with a full face of hair i hate him :$
Quote from: † on October 16, 2007, 10:46:33 pmalso grow a beard... its the best ice breaker ever.Dude. He's 14.I can't even grow a decent beard yet, and I'm 5 years older than he is. =(More advice: Don't go to an engineering college. 5:1 ratios are bad.
he has eyebrows of authority + 5. Are you kidding?
the way i see it , just live your life, when its all ready to be done you will notice the opportunity.
(don't ask for pics, I have none and respect her to much to sneak out my phone and take one)
I don't think you're the type for girls.
Quote from: jrgp on October 16, 2007, 09:44:11 pm(don't ask for pics, I have none and respect her to much to sneak out my phone and take one)There's your problem. F*ck respect. F*ck unconditional generosity. F*ck chivalry. It's all a waste of time and will make you feel like a tool. Save your knight in shining armor routine until after you're in a committed relationship. Girls aren't interested in it anyway.And don't listen to people who tell you not to change -- the idea that you are stuck as who you are, a personality like a rock, is illogical and archaic. You are who you make yourself to be and you'll be happy as long as you don't get stuck in a rut. So change. Become a more outspoken person. Walk with your head high. Make friends. Smile when you walk into a room. Show people that you respect yourself above all others.Observe people. See what makes makes them tick, then pick and choose to create your own personality. And make sure your chief goal is your own happiness, not someone else's.And the girl isn't interested in you. Too bad. Sh*t happens. Just move on and deal with it -- you'll be much better off.
There's your problem. F*ck respect. F*ck unconditional generosity. F*ck chivalry. It's all a waste of time and will make you feel like a tool. Save your knight in shining armor routine until after you're in a committed relationship. Girls aren't interested in it anyway.
Become friends? Get to know her a bit then just straight forward saying "Will you go out with me?" Spend sometime around her keep it smooth remember just be yourself.
Give up, she's way out of your league by virtue of having XX chromosomes.
dsfargeg
Quote from: BondJamesBond on October 16, 2007, 11:42:51 pmQuote from: {LAW} Gamer_2k4 on October 16, 2007, 11:22:24 pmQuote from: BondJamesBond on October 16, 2007, 11:12:28 pmNow. Shut yourself up. Why do you need a girlfriend. They don't make your life better or valuable.Yes, because developing a relationship is a really terrible thing for a person.Don't even know how you managed to get that out of my post...I think it was the "they don't make your life better" part.And now, for the explanation that REALLY shouldn't be required:If you have a girlfriend, chances are you have a relationship. Since developing a relationship is a good thing, it follows that having a girlfriend makes your life better. If you develop a relationship that doesn't make your life better, then it would make your life worse. Therefore, you were implying that the relationship between someone and their girlfriend was a bad thing.
Oh and remember, you can't count on a girl to make you happy, you have to learn to make yourself happy first before getting into a relationship.
PIERCE THE HEAVENS WITH YOUR DRILL!
Value the advice you're getting.
If it's necessary you could try faking and being the boyfriend of one of her girl friends.If it's necessary you could talk to her about your relationship about her friend that is your girlfriend.This way you will aproach her more and more. And she will fall...
This is where you're wrong, you're putting pussy on the pedestal.
Quote from: karmazon on October 17, 2007, 09:20:03 amThis is where you're wrong, you're putting pussy on the pedestal. You're one of those peoples who see women as one big sexual organ.Gotta say I find that mindset rather repulsive.
*off topic*im in 6th grade , i have half a mustache...lol*on topic*the way i see it , just live your life, when its all ready to be done you will notice the opportunity.
Quote from: jrgp on October 16, 2007, 09:44:11 pm(don't ask for pics, I have none and respect her to much to sneak out my phone and take one) This is where you're wrong, you're putting pussy on the pedestal.
Yesterday, I told her that her eyes looks absolutely amazing. She smiled and looked really happy.Today, I told her how much I liked her hair. She did the same thing, except looked even more happy.I think I might be on the right track.
Holy crap are you setting yourself up for a huge fall. You are making a common mistake kids make. They think about love to much.
Quote from: Wolf_Man on October 17, 2007, 01:33:40 am*off topic*im in 6th grade , i have half a mustache...lol*on topic*the way i see it , just live your life, when its all ready to be done you will notice the opportunity.No you have a scumstache... its not cool and it makes you look retarded. Shave it off. Now!
Yesterday, I told her that her eyes looks absolutely amazing. She smiled and looked really happy.
Complement her.
Quote from: Duck Boi on October 17, 2007, 01:52:45 pmComplement her.AAAAAA! The ONE time someone spells it with an e, they're wrong!Complement: To complete or add toCompliment: To praise
Quote from: Dascoo on October 17, 2007, 06:16:00 amPIERCE THE HEAVENS WITH YOUR DRILL!You should make inspirational posters or something. That's good stuff.
I attend grammar school, last grade, and ignorance is all around me. Well, good for them. Ignorance is bliss.
You fscked up the first impression. Better luck next time.
Quote from: VijchtiDoodah on October 17, 2007, 01:39:06 amThere's your problem. F*ck respect. F*ck unconditional generosity. F*ck chivalry. It's all a waste of time and will make you feel like a tool. Save your knight in shining armor routine until after you're in a committed relationship. Girls aren't interested in it anyway.Aw, is someone bitter?
What does that say about your girlfriend if she likes jerks?The girls that you want a lasting relationship with will be attracted to chivalry, etc...I don't know about you, but I'd rather have 1 girl in 10 years than 10 girls in 1 year.
So what are my options now? Keep sweet talking her day by day? Or just get her as a normal friend and then start being really nice to her and then ask her out?
And don't deny your sexual urges. You are human, you are male. You have a giant libido restrained only by the brittle leash of your consciousness. Feed it from time to time.
Quote from: jrgp on October 17, 2007, 03:55:00 pmSo what are my options now? Keep sweet talking her day by day? Or just get her as a normal friend and then start being really nice to her and then ask her out?Well, if you keep complimenting her and such, she'll notice that you're interested in her. But there's nothing wrong with just being good friends either.
You're muddling up things. jrgp, don't listen to him.
You're 14, not 30. What you don't need right now is a lasting relationship. You're still a child and so is your potential girlfriend (hopefully), lasting relationships are delusions at that age. Even if you wanted a lasting relationship, it isn't feasible: if you can't figure out how to snag a beautiful, intelligent girl, what makes you think you can keep her for very long? What makes you think you'll want to?
Test out the waters first. Gain some experience. Figure out what kind of girls you're really interested in. And don't be a jerk. Starting off without undue respect and chivalry -- and treating girls just like anyone else, as Panzercatwagon understands -- is the key to getting girls while protecting yourself from embarrassment. Lofty concepts of women as untainted goddesses will get you a quick ticket to depression simply because they aren't and you'll probably find out the hard way.
And don't deny your sexual urges. You are human, you are male. You have a giant libido restrained only by the brittle leash of your consciousness. Feed it from time to time. This doesn't mean that you should go out and have sex with every woman you see, nor does it mean that you need sex at all. Just keep a girlfriend around for company and good piece of mind -- consider it a favor to her, if you want, since she'll reap the benefits as well.
So go out. Treat women just like anyone else. Be their friend. Then date them if you want. And don't ever feel guilty that you have had many girlfriends and entered each relationship by treating them just like everyone else.
*off topic*im in 6th grade , i have half a mustache...lol*on topic*
I don't think Soldat Forums is a very good place to ask advice on girlfriends. Or any kind of friends.
Quote from: Cookie. on October 16, 2007, 10:10:31 pmQuote from: KorrupT MerC on October 16, 2007, 10:01:55 pmjrgp, i know what you mean by looking at life different, i've had a life-threatening situations... a couple of times actually : but s**t, im still here so f**k itYou dont need to go for the uggo's you just need:Confidence, most women love confidence and will like a guy who is outgoing... but not everyone is like that, but sometimes you have to be outgoing to get what you want... kind of like getting into a good career. Persistance also helps sometimes, but think about it like this, if you ask her and she says no, whats going to happen? absolutely nothing except give you the knowledge that she doesnt like you, this means you wont obsess over her for years and realise ''damn i wasted all that time for nothing''Oh, and you should try to be more social thats how you get around to meet girls and new friends too. Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him *PIC*This is the face of confidence.No, that's me two years ago. This is me now. Most of my acne is gone and I wear contacts now.
Quote from: KorrupT MerC on October 16, 2007, 10:01:55 pmjrgp, i know what you mean by looking at life different, i've had a life-threatening situations... a couple of times actually : but s**t, im still here so f**k itYou dont need to go for the uggo's you just need:Confidence, most women love confidence and will like a guy who is outgoing... but not everyone is like that, but sometimes you have to be outgoing to get what you want... kind of like getting into a good career. Persistance also helps sometimes, but think about it like this, if you ask her and she says no, whats going to happen? absolutely nothing except give you the knowledge that she doesnt like you, this means you wont obsess over her for years and realise ''damn i wasted all that time for nothing''Oh, and you should try to be more social thats how you get around to meet girls and new friends too. Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him *PIC*This is the face of confidence.
jrgp, i know what you mean by looking at life different, i've had a life-threatening situations... a couple of times actually : but s**t, im still here so f**k itYou dont need to go for the uggo's you just need:Confidence, most women love confidence and will like a guy who is outgoing... but not everyone is like that, but sometimes you have to be outgoing to get what you want... kind of like getting into a good career. Persistance also helps sometimes, but think about it like this, if you ask her and she says no, whats going to happen? absolutely nothing except give you the knowledge that she doesnt like you, this means you wont obsess over her for years and realise ''damn i wasted all that time for nothing''Oh, and you should try to be more social thats how you get around to meet girls and new friends too. Since she has a boyfriend though, you might want to look for someone else or if your bold enough, steal her from him
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Quote from: Dascoo on October 18, 2007, 06:36:34 amGET OUT OF HERE ASIANWhat a douche. You deserve a nice little warning.