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the thought of you trying to sort my problem makes me laugh out loud.
the thought of you trying to sort my problem makes me laugh out loud.i'll kickstart the thread tho;i think sex is a crucial factor for starting a relationship. mark me as a pervert, childish, or whatever - but that's just what i think and am able to do. i cannot have a relationship without opening it out with having sex, and lots of it.problem is that i don't enjoy having sex anymore. there are a few girls who i'd love to have as relationship partners, it's just that i know i'll make a fool of myself once we go into bed. my last 'relationship' ended up with me saying "screw this it won't work, i must be nuts but i can't have a boner".. we broke up days after.i'm dying to hear an opinion that will convince me that relationships don't have to have sex in them at first. actually, i think that if i'll be able to have a relationship with no sex at first, i might be able to enjoy sex later while i'm really into the girl or something. i don't think you can convince me of anything like that tho.tl;dr - i need to start enjoying sex again so i could start having serious relationships.
Where the hell do I take a girl on a first date, a place that doesn't smell like cheesiness like the movies.
The bar?
problem is that i don't enjoy having sex anymore. there are a few girls who i'd love to have as relationship partners, it's just that i know i'll make a fool of myself once we go into bed. my last 'relationship' ended up with me saying "screw this it won't work, i must be nuts but i can't have a boner".. we broke up days after.
Quote from: Shadow G-Unit on November 09, 2008, 12:48:28 pmThe bar?I think we all know what happens when you take your girlfriend to the Winchester.
Quote from: The Philanthropist on November 09, 2008, 12:11:08 amWhere the hell do I take a girl on a first date, a place that doesn't smell like cheesiness like the movies.Take her to your favorite place in the world, like a sports event, or a beach.
i think sex is a crucial factor for starting a relationship. mark me as a pervert, childish, or whatever - but that's just what i think and am able to do. i cannot have a relationship without opening it out with having sex, and lots of it.
he has eyebrows of authority + 5. Are you kidding?
I really hate to tell you this, but abusing certain drugs, for example pot, over a long period of time reduces your body's ability to sense pleasure in natural ways, eg, sex or working out. So that's probably why. Maybe if you left the stuff alone off a while, the good feeling of sex might come back to you.
Are you going to marry her to help out, or are you going to run off and ruin her life like many guys do in the same situation.
what happens if the girl gets pregnant? Are you going to marry her to help out, or are you going to run off and ruin her life like many guys do in the same situation.
I don't think sex is necessarily a crucial part for starting a relationship. However, it is true that most people experience a duration of elation and borderline obsession with their partners for a certain amount of time at the beginning of a relationship, which varies with every person. Sex may very well be a large part of that for you. And that's fine, in my opinion. It's been suggested that, despite popular perception, sex establishes a significant connection between two people (or more, if you're into that >_>). However, sex should not be a priority around which a relationship revolves, and I think you're dangerously close to being in that category.I'll agree with UnknownSniper that too many people these days get into relationships because their sexual escapades fecked them over in the long run, or simply because of habitual infatuation with one another. Hence the high divorce rate. However, I firmly disagree with the Christian belief that sex should be reserved until marriage, mostly because, as I stated, sex has its uses, both physiological and sociological. If you're smart about it, sex can be quite the advantage for you. Plus, I don't want to associate my wedding with "Yes, I finally get to pound 'er!" >_>;I'm done pretending to be a psychologist. For now.
tl;dr - i need to start enjoying sex again so i could start having serious relationships.
for me, having sex with a partner is a way for me to see she truely trusts me and could rely on me.
there shouldn't be any reason my partner would be scared to preform something as unmeaningfull as sex with me
Quote from: jrgp on September 30, 2010, 03:36:50 pmOnly anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.so clearly jgrp is a goddamn anime connoisseur. his opinion might as well be law here.
Only anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.
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