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That's the saddest thing I've ever read. Seriously, by getting into drugs you're just making yourself look extremely unappealing to a huge majority of females. And as for the ones who are attracted to the laid-back, stoner, feck everything let's just party, be cool and listen to Grateful Dead whilst smoking bowls all day long, kind of attitude, what do you expect to get in return? A trashy, junky, whiny, greedy, slore with no emotional range or goal in life? I thank you no.
to you lot asking why you would want to get a girl like that, remind yourselves that he should be grateful to even get a girl. beggars cant be choosersalso no one meets their ideal girl after one try. those that say they have are lying. and worse yet, often sadand theres no way hes even gonna be able to score his perfect bird without getting some experience first
Not true, but clearly arguing with you would be pointless, since you're a self proclaimed drug user for the sole purpose of finding a girlfriend.
Guys, I just went on a 3 week meth binge, and it got me in a great relationship. Me and Frank have been in love ever since I stepped into that cell.
Quote from: jrgp on September 30, 2010, 03:36:50 pmOnly anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.so clearly jgrp is a goddamn anime connoisseur. his opinion might as well be law here.
Only anime shows I've felt any interest in over the years are Pokemon (original TV series) and various hentai.
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to you lot asking why you would want to get a girl like that, remind yourselves that he should be grateful to even get a girl. beggars cant be choosers
also no one meets their ideal girl after one try. those that say they have are lying. and worse yet, often sad
and theres no way hes even gonna be able to score his perfect bird without getting some experience first
The idea that you have to date a less desirable girl before you can date a more desirable one is just ridiculous. What's stopping a person from asking out someone from, say, church? In the right environment, you're much more likely to "score your perfect bird" than in some lousy environment. Besides, you may not find your ideal girl first, but the overall quality of the first person you date will be higher than if you tried to pick one out from a social smoking group.
There is no such thing as an "ideal girl" in the realm of existence.
Quote from: {LAW} Gamer_2k4 on November 11, 2008, 11:58:02 pmThe idea that you have to date a less desirable girl before you can date a more desirable one is just ridiculous. What's stopping a person from asking out someone from, say, church? In the right environment, you're much more likely to "score your perfect bird" than in some lousy environment. Besides, you may not find your ideal girl first, but the overall quality of the first person you date will be higher than if you tried to pick one out from a social smoking group.First of all, church may be a more ideal environment for you, but not for everyone.
Secondly, I believe Panzer is trying to say that there's no possible way to know whether or not you're dating your "ideal" girl (which, to re-iterate, is a romantic fantasy) if she is the only one you have ever dated. Reason simply deems it a self-evident truth. From an objective perspective, you can't compare her to any other experiences, as you haven't had any others.
Thirdly, I suspect that it is impossible to judge the desirability of a girl until you've spent significant amounts of time with her. In general, people do not disclose their true persona to others. It takes time and experience with a person to discover his or her hidden (and thus, most important) flaws. It's a loose belief of mine that gladly accepting someone as a package of strengths and flaws grants you the privilege of saying "I love you."
Just remember: the generalizations that you make about people who smoke pot and people who drink alcohol (note: not alcoholics, big difference) would be quite similar to me declaring something like "Christians are the most strict, boring, and gullible people around, and they ruin their lives by basing their actions on false beliefs." The reason that such a statement seems absurd to you is because society subjectively raised you so, in the same way that they raised you to believe that if you smoke pot even once, your brain deteriorates and you begin speaking like a retard with Down's Syndrome in slow motion.
Edit: Interestingly enough, there was a point at which I sounded exactly like jrgp. Straight-edge. Thought that alcohol made you downright stupid. Thought that weed turned you into a vegetable unworthy of existence. Being a hypocrite has made me a better person.
Well, you've got to understand that the people I've grown up with starting getting into drugs and other crap a few years ago. And where are they now? Selling drugs, getting arrested, knocking up girls, etc. These were my friends at one point, people I cared about. Now they're fecked beyond all belief, primarily due to substances and lack of intelligence.
Right, which is why I said "asking out someone from, say, church" and continued talking about a generic "environment." I was just using church as an example.
Sure, but you DO know if she's fun to be around, if she can provide emotional support, and so on. If you're satisfied with the first girl you ever date, what does it matter that you have no one to compare her to?
It's not so much that I think drug user == terrible person. But not dating someone because they smoke pot, for me, is similar to not dating someone because they're obese, or have several piercings. To me, that sends the message that they don't respect themselves enough to do what's good for their bodies, and that often represents their character as it applies to other issues as well.
ok whatever i was just saying that its likely this girl will be more interested in him if he does something cool. if hes just like everyone else then hes just like everyone else
I find it rather pathetic to go to such lengths just to get a shot at a girl. It's just too troublesome.
Hm..... I was thinking, giving her a birthday card is a stupid idea, right?....