Hah, good point. I'd forgotten about remote IP's.
Lemme uh, take some time to fix that.. ahem.
edit:
Actually, time to see if I can't just make it dedicated.
edit2:
The difference between dedicated and not is obviously big... there were more complications than I foresaw. Still not done configuring everything.
Remote IP for reference: 75.165.0.86
edit3:
Go figures. I can join via lan, and the server shows up in the lobby, but remote connections fail. Ugh, doing this all via not-dedicated works fine. Apparently I'm missing something. And yes, I have my ports forwarded up the ying-yang. I've always had problems with Soldat and dedicated servers