...about a girl...

[echo_trail]

Woah, you're either extremely paranoid, or you've watched waaaay too much porn! Girls aren't like this, man. I wish they were, but they ain't.


Okay, so you blew this one, tough luck. Don't let the world(or Carl) get you down, keep on your toes. She's not the only girl in the world, you know, so get back out there.

[Cookie.]

True stuff, when I was in 7th grade I asked a girl to a dance and she turned me down in front of like half the class. Talk about embarrassing.

Its because you look like Shrek...

[Sticky]

BACK OFF.

Seriously, you don't want to look like some creepy stalker.

Girls are annoying, they flirt with everybody, they piss you off, they spend all your money

Bitter much?

[Mr. Domino]

oh I'm so in love
I consulted with a friend of mine that I should send this girl an SMS to tell her about my feelings cause  we are in different schools now and are not in the same shift.
So I sent her an sms and told her how I dunno how to describe the feeling i have for her and that I didn't had the courage to tell her before. So I've snet it and waited.
A couple of mins later  she replies and says that she just wants friendship and nothing more because dating and all isn't her thing now( dunnow why) .She also said sorry and got in a smilie

Probably a mistake to send a Sega Master System as a token of love. 

[Iridescent]

Girls are annoying, they flirt with everybody, they piss you off, they spend all your money

Ok thats a bit harsh. I have a girlfriend, we don't exactly 'flirt' with others, more like having fun. All we do is pretend we hate each other and love everyone else. Obviously we're not always stabbingat each other, but pointing out the others 'flaws' strengthens the relationship. "Piss you off?" obviously haven't met the right person yet. "Spend all my money" So far I have spent nothing on her other than souvenirs from when I went to places.

Basically that is completely wrong, actually look for a real girl Dascoo.

This is a good thread and several people can benfit from it. I like the ideas proposed here even though I may disagree with some. Like Echo, I'm surprised how forumers can unite and help people in need then act like **** 60 seconds later in another thread.


I prefer the method of telling the girl not in person, but not by texting. I prefer MSN or Skype. Email and texting is too crude, but face to face lets you see their reaction and reuires a more abrupt answer. I prefer 'my' method because it gives them some time to think and you can't see their reaction which if bad could make it worse.

[Dascoo]

Well then your lucky you have girls like that around your place

Like I said I'm not a very lucky person...the only person I could think of that I probably was thinking about going out with, and people were like YOU SHOULD GO OUT WITH HER, then decided not too because we were good friends, and I didn't really really really like her...She then goes out with some other guy, but for some reason I regret not going out with her.....

[Kazuki]

One girl is not better than the other in a sense that if one turns you down, find another one, not a big deal seriously. Go out and be social, meet new people.

The two things I gathered from that were that relationships really are as pointless as I think they are, and that only social people will succeed at them. So I may have been right all along. I would rather not sacrifice my lifestyle so I could have the pleasure of failing to "snag one" over and over again, until I finally do, and then have to look for another two weeks later.

[VijchtiDoodah]

The two things I gathered from that were that relationships really are as pointless as I think they are, and that only social people will succeed at them.

Relationships aren't pointless.  They're the best cure for depression and inertia I've ever seen, and they'll make you feel much better even if you think you're happy.  At the very least, they're practice for the future, Kaz.  At most, they'll make your life full.  At their worst, there's always make-up sex.

And some of the strongest relationships I've ever seen were between introverted people.  So don't worry if you aren't social.

[Dascoo]

Aaaah this sucks...the only one I can tihnk of I kinda think is cute, my friend likes...and I feel sorry for him because he has no chance.

[VijchtiDoodah]

All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits.  ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!

[The Bone Collector]

your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times 
What Works!:
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!

[Dascoo]

All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits.�  ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!

Sorry I'm empathetic, and any bad thing I do I feel bad about...unless it's something I had to do to survive.

your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times 
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!

Yes, teasing actually works....oddly.

[Captain Ben]

ffs... don't listen to these losers, they know nothing of love and asking women out

just freakin kill her already

[karmazon]

She can't say no if she's dead.


Just throwing it out there.

[The Bone Collector]

NEVER force yourself on her

I didn't mean this is a dirty way either.....

ffs... don't listen to these losers, they know nothing of love and asking women out

just freakin kill her already

She can't say no if she's dead.


Just throwing it out there.

Funnily enough these are true.....but jesus christ.....what a way to add your bit....MAKE THE FARKING THING MEANINGFUL.....there are rules o posting you know...

[karmazon]

All the more reason to swoop in and crush his spirits.  ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, BABY!

Sorry I'm empathetic, and any bad thing I do I feel bad about...unless it's something I had to do to survive.

your biggest mistake was telling her what you felt about her. And....forcing your self onto her (as you did with the sms) was a little...stupid. Now....I've done everything here that you just did, infact...I've done it three times 
Just play with her (nothing dirty implied here) and flirt...if she flirts back, then your winning Eventually...you can ask her out to movies/mall/whatever...NEVER force yourself on her...otherwise you'll make her feel that your like every other guy shes been with. Try a little c&f (Cocky and Funny) technique tease her softly (nothing to mean or she'll hate you) and make it funny!

Yes, teasing actually works....oddly.

Why oddly ? Attraction is not logical. The logical thing to do for a guy is to be nice to a girl. Don't be nice. Don't seek her approval. Be yourself and convey that you are the selector not the selectee(?).

[echo_trail]

A partly Agree, K. Allthough I don't see why you have to be either of those two. Can't you just agree on it? Whatever happened to be two about this?
"Takes two to tango" Ô_o

Anyway, the funny thing about love is that you never know where it takes you. That's why it's so great, and that's why you always get that funny feeling in your belly. It's like a small adventure.

It's actually pretty similar to religion; it is what you make of it, and you're the one who dicedes how far to take it. Well, depending on how far the opposite part is prepared to take it, obviously.

Love.. Just Do It!

[Captain Ben]

She can't say no if she's dead.


Just throwing it out there.

good point. that means you'll have to do all the work...

[Will]

@ aqua : just shut up okay ? ( We kicked him outta our clan because he was just bringing n00bs and now he's retaliating)

ontopic: I talked to her and said I didn't want to ruin our friendship and all , and that we shouldn't be feeling awkward  . She then said that it wasn't because of me but because she broke up with her boyfriend ( he cheated on her) and she couldn't stand another relationship RIGHT now.
So prolly yea , I have a chance with her , I just have to be patient . And in the meantime I won't be stalking on her(as some individuals said it was the right thing to do ) and  I will just try to be the best friend and give her some space to recover.

Guys you could just throw any new ideas here cause someone else surely has similiar problems and  as someone pointed out  (I forgot who) this would help allot of peole

[Valorman]

Best way to get a girl to like you? Just be nice. If she drops something, pick it up etc.