Some thing is Wrong with me Help me?

[Camping_carl]

Something is wrong with me
i have a beautiful girlfriend and an actually okay life no dept no nothing...

but today

I Said I dont want to be with you

because when im surfing the web.... i see these pretty asian girls ... and my stomach churns... and i want them more.. than anyone else..

I told my girlfriend... I want an asian...
she cryed blah blah blah.. and i have not talked to her since

what is wrong with me why did i do this?!

i cant find an asian unless i go to japan and is it worth waiting for a girl thats japanese?!

Sigh..... i dont know why i even did it.. im stuck in iraq and said that to her..
guess i just am tired of her?!

i feel bad.. but.. :] i want a pretty asian there eyes are the best and so is there skin ^_^ and there awesome hot hair


Am i bipolar?

i played horrible tricks on her.. like telling her she was a freak..

or making her walk home..
and driving off my self
I said your fat.. walk home
it will help...

What else.. she always fixed me food
 made my bed
cleaned my room..

slept with me
hugged me
snuggled..
said she loved me
gave me a promise ring...
took care of my dog when im away.

looks after my stuff...

But i always said go away sometimes..
or.. go home -_-
or leave me alone..
or yelled at her..
or said your friends think your fat.

or didnt want to hug her..
or didnt kiss back...
or sat there and played games as she tried to get my attention......

Now i dumped her... cause i searched for

Naruto cosplay and just saw the prettest asian girls dressed up as anime characters..
and then looked into asian girls

and omg.. they are the prettest to me

. what is wrong with me.

[Dascoo]

You're a pooface. Wasn't your girlfriend really really really hawt? Asian women aren't that hawt....geez I oculd only name 3 vs the 200 hawt caucasian women.

[adder]

Man, set your priorities straight yo.

[zaraza]

. what is wrong with me.

Everything

[The Red Guy]

So you suddenly think that asian girls are hot, then you wanna ditch your old girlfriend to look for a new asian one....

What the hell is wrong with you?

[{LAW} Gamer_2k4]

Did this happen before or after you went to Iraq?  Maybe since you haven't had female contact in a while, you're grasping at straws and consequently making bad decisions.

[bja888]

Did you ever see jarhead? Shes so gonna cheat on you now...

If she hasn't already.

[EnEsCe]

Whats wrong with you? Your shallow, thats what... You shouldn't be dumping her because you like the looks of Asians and they churn your butter.

[Camping_carl]

lol just happend this  morning still in iraq.

shes not cheating.. i know that much..

she writes to me everyday

she leaves me messages she calls me
and she helps my mom around the house -_-
and takes goku on walks..

[Smegma]

I thought she had PERFECT teeth!?

[{LAW} Gamer_2k4]

lol just happend this  morning still in iraq.

shes not cheating.. i know that much..

she writes to me everyday

she leaves me messages she calls me
and she helps my mom around the house -_-
and takes goku on walks..

Dang man...that's too good to lose.  You have to apologize as soon as you can.  Buy her something online and have it delivered to her house or something.  You have to show you still care about her.  Never, ever dump someone because they aren't "perfect".  You'll never meet the girls you're obsessed with right now, and if you do, they aren't going to be interested in you.  Realize that you have a good thing going here.  Not many people are as lucky as you.

[PANZERCATWAGON]

I told my girlfriend... I want an asian...
she cryed blah blah blah.. and i have not talked to her since

Hahahah. xD

Well aside from that, I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Apart from maybe poor spelling.

You don't like her anymore and you want to date an asian girl, is nothing wrong with that. That's how you feel. If you don't want to date her anymore then that's up to you. What I don't think you should be doing is telling her she is fat, or her friends called her fat. That's not acceptable. Apologise for calling her fat and then hope she understands it's time to move on.

[The_Teacher]

Well, you could have used.
It isn't JUST you, it's me to. Becouse obviosly she wasn't asian, and you good sir, is a dickweed.

[PANZERCATWAGON]

Well, you could have used.
It isn't JUST you, it's me to.

Everyone hates that. You know what they're really saying is "It is just you, I'm just trying to make you feel better by saying this".

[Kazuki]

I'm going to assume for the moment that you had a good relationship with this woman.

Due to the underappreciation you had for such a rare outcome, I would have to dub you a new level of retarded. I don't like being blunt, but you had something which many people only wish for and give up on; yet, you throw it away because your hormones scream "ASIAN WOMEN". This may sound subjective, but I find that pathetic.

[Keron Cyst]

Apologize to that girl! :O She did nothing to you. From what you've posted, your girlfriend has been nicer to you than every member of my own family to me. Come back to her and tell her you're sorry for saying such remarks, and that you didn't realize what you were doing.

Relations aren't based solely on appearance, you realize. But if you continue to insist that you must... well, try an Asian girl (sorry for treating girls like objects, lol, but I can't think of any other way to word it), as PANZERCATWAGON posted, don't leave your current girlfriend abruptly like that. Apologize, and if your damage was too much for her to return to you fully and she herself asks if you two can "move on," that'd be a great moment to detach.

Though, I myself would try to repair things as best as possible and continue on with her. As {LAW} Gamer_2k4 said, not many people are as lucky as you

[The Geologist]

Wow...you owe her so much it's not even funny.  Dog walking and letter writing aside, you owe her for all the time you've been a complete asshole and fucked with her.

Making her walk home?  Calling her fat?  You don't even deserve to be a in a relationship if that's how you act, much less with your perfect Asain fixation or this girl.  You're lucky to have this girl, because it seems like she puts up with your bullshit.  But for how long I wonder?  Hmm.

Apologize.  Now.  In mass volume.  And make it clear how perfectly stupid you were being and how much you weren't thinking.  Because you're treating what sounds like a great girl like total garbage.  Sickening.

[The Bone Collector]

One word:

Retard.


You don't even deserve that girl. She loves you man...your just to dumb to see it. I can garuntee about 99% of the worlds population would give anything to have a girl like that.
Giving up a girl thats truly into you just because you want an Asian chick....thats completely stupid. But, theres no use keeping her if thats the way you treat her....

I smite thee for stupidity.

[Krillious]

well dumping her because he doesn't want to like her anymore is better than not dumping her because she does stuff for him

but ye you should apologise, and when you find an asian that can replace her, you can dump her

[PANZERCATWAGON]

Some people are saying he is a retard because he is throwing away something not many people have. If he feels he doesn't want to be with the woman, then no, he shouldn't be making her walk home and calling her fat. But it doesn't mean he is stupid for throwing away what others want.

That's like saying because others can't get something good, he isn't allowed to throw away that good thing he has, for something he really wants.

Still, I think you should have thought about it more before you did it, because even though she might not be what you want, you might realise later that she was all you ever needed.

Good luck CC and remember to apologise to her, it's the least you can do.