IS god trying to tell me something?

[The Bone Collector]

Ok, I know that maybe I shouldn't post it here...but I wanna know what you guys think.
This is a "Camping_Carl" sort of situation, but I'm not dumping my girl for a mail-order Asian *****....
Judge me, make lame jokes, or anything like that, and I'll smite thee willingly. I want straight out honest answers, and thats all.

Ok, so a week or so ago...I have a problem with 2 girls that liked me. Lets consider them as Girl A, and Girl B.
I had told myself that I'd give them both a chance....and I chose the girl I (thought) I felt comfortable with (Girl A). Everything went fine untill 2 days ago, when I was talking to her best friend (Girl B), and she told me that the girl I was interested in (Girl A)....Was dating some guy that she's known for quiet a while. Now...I've never met this girl, but we had shared our thoughts and feelings with each other...and she told me that she'd wait for me. (Girl A)
So...That night I was pretty drunk, so I didn't take it to heart...and I didn't believe it. I asked her best friend (Girl B) to MAKE SURE that it was truth, and to call me and tell me the next day. She does the next day, and I find out that it IS true. I go nuts...2 weeks before I pack my bags and go and meet her (Girl A)....she basically CHEATS on me!...I feel that she used me! ....

Anyway...so she (Girl A) comes online yesterday (on MSN)...and messages me. "Just tell me you hate me and I'll understand why" was what she said to me. I told her what I thought, and she gave me excuses. I had once told her (about 4 months ago, not long after I met her online) that I didn't know if I was ever gonna get there to meet her, and that she shouldn't wait for me. So, yesterday...while we had our little argument...:

I say: Why did you do it?
her: Well your the one who told me to not wait around!
me: What kind of excuse is that? I was coming to see you IN ONE ****ING WEEK and you go and do this....and you use THAT excuse?
her: ...

She begged me to forgive her, but I told her that I don't want to know her. I don't have time for those that make me weak inside, and then burn me. I hate cheaters, and she was a cheater.

ANYWAY. I basically told her at the end of the conversation "F**k off, go back to your new boyfriend and stay the f**k out of my life!" and signed off. I do feel guilty that I said that to her, but when I start feeling guilty...a voice in my head repeats "she's a cheater, she used you...don't let her get to you".

After that, I was talking to one of her friends (the other one that has a crush on me, and I went to school with her...Girl B) and she said that I should still come down, and catch up with her. Now...before all the other stuff happened, This girl had offered to let me stay at her place while I was own there (and I accepted, as I had nowhere else to stay). I get an SMS from her after a few hours telling me something like this:

"My sister just asked me where you were going to sleep, and she reckons u should sleep with me"

Now...I wasn't shocked when she said that, I kinda had a thought through my head saying "You like her, so do it!". I really do like this girl, and I have ever since I met her. I used to think about her all the time before she introduced me to her friend. And even while I was getting to know the girl.
Right now...after all thats happened over the last few days, I've been thinking about it...and I felt that I was exactly like the girl that "cheated" on me (Girl A). I feel that I've cheated on her, after all the things that me and her friend talked about.

Last night I was talking to Girl B's cousin, who is living with her at the moment. Her cousin reckons that maybe God is trying to tell me that Girl A was just a distraction, and that Girl B is the one I should date. This got me thinking, and now I'm confused....
Help me please!


Should I feel guilty for what I said to Girl A?
Am I any better than the Girl A who cheated on me?
What should I do about Girl B?
What should I do about it all?
Is god trying to tell me that I should be with Girl B?

[A]

No.

[Camping_carl]

Should I feel guilty for what I said to Girl A? No Fist her

Am I any better than the Girl A who cheated on me? Yes all men are created equal
Your always going to be better

What should I do about Girl B? Check her outt

What should I do about it all?  Find Girl C

Is god trying to tell me that I should be with Girl B? She might be a slut too.. she is friends with girl A

[Dascoo]

Is she hot? Because if she's hot then you should fuck her, then get rid of her. I really didn't read it properly, but I got that you went to some chicks place, found out she was with some other guy, got pissed, went to b, and then you want her now? Whose hotter?

[The Bone Collector]

Girl A: http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/6408/newimagetf5.png

Girl B: http://img224.imageshack.us/img224/4418/cidaaxq6.jpg

I honestly don't care about looks....Hot chicks with no personality are bimbos imo. Girl B is a really nice girl, and really into me.

[A]

Girl A: http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/6408/newimagetf5.png

Girl B: http://img224.imageshack.us/img224/4418/cidaaxq6.jpg

I honestly don't care about looks....Hot chicks with no personality are bimbos imo. Girl B is a really nice girl, and really into me.

EW Girl B is a porker. Just go with Girl A.

EDIT: Wait no Girl A could be 12 years old by the looks of that picture... Just ignore them both.

[The Bone Collector]

...Girl A is 17 you twat....and Girl B is not a porker....

Some people have no respect for women....

[Dascoo]

No comment on girl b. I'm just going to be mean, so I might aswell not say anything.

Everyone has a personality, even hot girls....unless they're robots.

[The Bone Collector]

No comment on girl b. I'm just going to be mean, so I might aswell not say anything.

Everyone has a personality, even hot girls....unless they're robots.

Yea...some of the really hot ones have personalitys....The rest have the brains of a wet mop....

[A]

...Girl A is 17 you twat....and Girl B is not a porker....

Some people have no respect for women....

Well I suppose that was in rather bad taste so I may as well make it up by giving my useless two cents:

This is why you shouldn't use the internet to meet girls.

[frogboy]

The rest have the brains of a wet mop....

Should suit you then.

EDIT: Also, A was right about Girl B.

[Rai-Dei]

Girl A has a mustache me thinks, and anyways to hell with both em!

[Spyder]

Girl A if i have to choose between those 2...but they are both preetty bad chocie IMO

[A]

Girl A if i have to choose between those 2...but they are both preetty bad chocie IMO

Yeah, way too emo. I have respect for women, just not the creepy whoreish goth ones.

[Cookie.]

Girl A is better looking but you did the right thing. Go for B sounds like a better plan for you. Although C may be the best option.

Wtf? Since when do girls use the internet?

-=Fake Edit
Looked at the picture of B again... Go for C...
Although I will quote a funny saying "Fat girls give better head because they are hungry"
Weigh it out, I would still choose C

[Camping_carl]

I cant see the freaking pictures can someone upload them somewhere else and put them on the forum!? cause imageshack is blocked

[Dascoo]

Girl A has a mustache me thinks, and anyways to hell with both em!

They both do.

If you find them sexually attractive, and you like their personality....go ahead. Frankly, I don't find those ladies attractive, A is average but B...........nvm.

[Camping_carl]

Showww meee!!!!!!!!

[EnEsCe]

Girl B: http://img224.imageshack.us/img224/4418/cidaaxq6.jpg

Jesus christ, somebody man the harpoons!

[Cookie.]

Damn the angle on that photo is definatly not flattering.....
It might just be the angle right? .... right?

[The Bone Collector]

Stop judging the pictures, and get back to the original post....
Jeez....

[Wraithlike]

Girl B: http://img224.imageshack.us/img224/4418/cidaaxq6.jpg

Jesus christ, somebody man the harpoons!

Thats not nice, manitees are endangered.

[Camping_carl]

you pricks

let me see!!!

[The Bone Collector]

Ok, my mistake for posting photos. Seriously though....if all you guys think about...are looks and getting your dick wet...
Then you don't deserve to be anywhere near a woman....

[Wraithlike]

And you're hooking up on the internet, thus not getting you anywhere near women. Huzzah!

[Camping_carl]

hey bones can you like.. upload them so i can see them.. if it comes from image shack i cant see them at all

and i wanna see

[Cookie.]

And you're hooking up on the internet, thus not getting you anywhere near women. Huzzah!

Bwahahahahahah I love you.
+1

TheBoneCollector your assuming things... there is nothing wrong with having standards though you apparently don't have any, so good for you

[Camping_carl]

Cookie can you upload the pictures for me?!

[EnEsCe]

Cookie can you upload the pictures for me?!

Poor carl, everyone keeps ignoring him... lol

Here ya go:
Girl A: http://server1.enesce.com/tmp/newimagetf5.png
Girl B: http://server1.enesce.com/tmp/cidaaxq6.jpg

[Camping_carl]

Cookie can you upload the pictures for me?!

Poor carl, everyone keeps ignoring him... lol

Here ya go:
Girl A: http://server1.enesce.com/tmp/newimagetf5.png
Girl B: http://server1.enesce.com/tmp/cidaaxq6.jpg

Thank you for trying enesce.. .. still.. it failed to work
i guess you have games on your site. -_-..

This website has been blocked because of

Games

How come i can get to soldat though!??!?
this is like the only site. thats not blocked --_ that and google.

[EnEsCe]

Here ya go:
Girl A: http://72.232.225.66/tmp/newimagetf5.png
Girl B: http://72.232.225.66/tmp/cidaaxq6.jpg

Should work.

[Camping_carl]

okay i like girl A because her eyes are nice and her hair is hawt..
but you can tell shes a loose chick
SO what you should do..

Is probley bang her a couple times.. as you are trying to find girl C
now the mission of this is.. get some pussy.. you know shes loose..
so dont even try to think you can stick with her..

She bascally cheated.. and she will continue to.. most girls will if you are not around you must find the rare girl that doesnt cheat. kinda like i do..

now girl B

She just wants your Penis... you can tell shes a hungry one..
Dont trust her... she just told you that stuff cause she thinks she can hook up with a half decent looking guy.. she wants you for looks and you can tell her boobies are not big enough to even try for.

Chick A Looks like she can be a bit wild in bed...

Chick B looks like he type to tear your penis off and wear it...

So .... bang chick A.. you know stick with her ...
See how she is.... and if you end up liking her peronality..
and investigate her.. see if she will cheat again
mostlikely she will

she must be a horny chicka..

Anyways thats my advice.


AND THANK YOU ENESENCEENENENENENENEE!!

hugs you tightly.. i can tell who my friends are enesce....
and you are one of them you actually heard my plead for help..
and now i will Help you and deffend you in any matter.

[Cookie.]

okay i like girl A because her eyes are nice and her hair is hawt..
but you can tell shes a loose chick
SO what you should do..

Is probley bang her a couple times.. as you are trying to find girl C
now the mission of this is.. get some pussy.. you know shes loose..
so dont even try to think you can stick with her..

She bascally cheated.. and she will continue to.. most girls will if you are not around you must find the rare girl that doesnt cheat. kinda like i do..

now girl B

She just wants your Penis... you can tell shes a hungry one..
Dont trust her... she just told you that stuff cause she thinks she can hook up with a half decent looking guy.. she wants you for looks and you can tell her boobies are not big enough to even try for.

Chick A Looks like she can be a bit wild in bed...

Chick B looks like he type to tear your penis off and wear it...

So .... bang chick A.. you know stick with her ...
See how she is.... and if you end up liking her peronality..
and investigate her.. see if she will cheat again
mostlikely she will

she must be a horny chicka..

Anyways thats my advice.


AND THANK YOU ENESENCEENENENENENENEE!!

hugs you tightly.. i can tell who my friends are enesce....
and you are one of them you actually heard my plead for help..
and now i will Help you and deffend you in any matter.

Yea go for A I agree and maybe wait for C. 

[The Bone Collector]

Carl....+1 for humor. I'm not gonna use these girls for sex....I have no need for that.

Cookie....I do have standards. Just extremely low standards. Looks don't count for everything....

*sigh*....Maybe I just need to get laid.....

[Camping_carl]

Carl....+1 for humor. I'm not gonna use these girls for sex....I have no need for that.

Cookie....I do have standards. Just extremely low standards. Looks don't count for everything....

*sigh*....Maybe I just need to get laid.....

Girl A waits.. with legs wide open

[Cookie.]

So does girl B and she is hungggryyy!

[Captain Ben]

Carl....+1 for humor. I'm not gonna use these girls for sex....I have no need for that.

Cookie....I do have standards. Just extremely low standards. Looks don't count for everything....

*sigh*....Maybe I just need to get laid.....

Girl A waits.. with legs wide open

Would you rather have Lucy Liu or Rosie O Donnel?

EXACTLY

[Camping_carl]

Carl....+1 for humor. I'm not gonna use these girls for sex....I have no need for that.

Cookie....I do have standards. Just extremely low standards. Looks don't count for everything....

*sigh*....Maybe I just need to get laid.....

Girl A waits.. with legs wide open

Would you rather have Lucy Liu or Rosie O Donnel?

EXACTLY

Right.. also its embarresing to be with ugly girls in public.
So either call her your SISTER or your friend..
ANd stay away from her Love is not an option with the beast.

[MofoNofo]

You guys are so slack

[The Geologist]

Someone you've never met can't cheat on you.  You're not in a relationship.

That's all it boils down to.  If you've never met Girl A, what the hell are you fretting about?  So she got with some guy before you went out to see her?  So what?

You never met her, it's long distance, get over it.  You don't have any sort of real relationship with Girl A, so I'd suggest you drop it all before you get yourself into something really troubling.

It sounds like you're just panning out to the alternative option, one that could hurt Girl A.  But since you told her to **** off, then why do you care about that?  Are you just going with Girl B because she supposedly wants your nuts?

This bear would be wise to keep his paws out of the honey pot.

Until you meet whichever girl in person and actually start something serious, don't even bother.  Yea, you might get laid...but you'd probably get a bunch of **** for it that would make it a pain in the ass. 

Oh, and God doesn't care about this sort of crap. 

Edit:
Should I feel guilty for what I said to Girl A?
~Not really, because you never met her and you weren't in a relationship.

Am I any better than the Girl A who cheated on me?
~If you go screw Girl B, no, you're a hypocrite who ****ed Girl A's best friend.

What should I do about Girl B?
~Nothing?  Get away?

What should I do about it all?
~See above.

Is god trying to tell me that I should be with Girl B?
~No, God doesn't care about this sort of thing, that's a load of crap.

[Camping_carl]

Someone you've never met can't cheat on you.  You're not in a relationship.

That's all it boils down to.  If you've never met Girl A, what the hell are you fretting about?  So she got with some guy before you went out to see her?  So what?

You never met her, it's long distance, get over it.  You don't have any sort of real relationship with Girl A, so I'd suggest you drop it all before you get yourself into something really troubling.

It sounds like you're just panning out to the alternative option, one that could hurt Girl A.  But since you told her to **** off, then why do you care about that?  Are you just going with Girl B because she supposedly wants your nuts?

This bear would be wise to keep his paws out of the honey pot.

Until you meet either of these girls in person and actually start something serious, don't even bother.  Yea, you might get laid...but you'd probably get a bunch of **** for it that would make it a pain in the ass. 

Oh, and God doesn't care about this sort of crap. 

Correct.. keep her hand out of the pot cause shes fat.

also just wait till you meet girls like im with.. cause.. i find all the hotties and you. just
dont know what your doing.

[Captain Ben]

So you never met girl A?
hhahhaha this makes it all the funnier.... anyway, you're 16, isn't that a bit young to resort to internet dating?

[Camping_carl]

let me guide your meat into her taco

[Captain Ben]

besides everyone knows asians shit on fat chicks

[The Bone Collector]

let me guide your meat into her taco

Haha...If i wasn't drinking, I'd take that as an insult....

But...I seriously Rofled at that....

Geoligist (I think):

As much as you think that your right, your seriously fucking right! 
I totally understand what your saying. Yea...I did something wrong, taking it all the wrong way. She sent me an email today that put everything into place for me....So I don't know....She's still in the wrong atm. Thanks Geo, for the only decent reply to my thread.

And CC...So what if she's f**king fat!....She's hot in my eyes, no matter what you f**king say.

[Camping_carl]

let me guide your meat into her taco

Haha...If i wasn't drinking, I'd take that as an insult....

But...I seriously Rofled at that....

Geoligist (I think):

As much as you think that your right, your seriously ****ing right! 
I totally understand what your saying. Yea...I did something wrong, taking it all the wrong way. She sent me an email today that put everything into place for me....So I don't know....She's still in the wrong atm. Thanks Geo, for the only decent reply to my thread.

And CC...So what if she's f**king fat!....She's hot in my eyes, no matter what you f**king say.

Even if i was drunk i wouldnt think she was hot...
She has to little of lips.. I bet vagina would swallow your leg like it has not eat anything in months.

[A]

Okay... If you do ignore all of our fat jokes and still go for girl B, at least don't do what this guy did. Because I know you'll have an urge to.

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/infotech/view_article.php?article_id=41820

[Noldi]

No.

[Twistkill]

I am also disturbed by all the fat jokes in this thread. I agree with Bone Collector here. All women, in my eyes, no matter how attractive or unattractive they are, are the same. (Unless it's an extreme case) Know why? Because they have the same features. They all have eyes... They all have noses... They all (Well, they should) have breasts... They all have ears... They all have eyes... They're all the same, dammit... they're all human beings, which should be enough, but everyone in this world is so superficial and shallow nowadays. <_<

I say you should go with Girl B, although The Geologist did make a good point about the fact that you didn't even have a relationship with Girl A because you never really got to know her. I still say go with Girl B...

[zaraza]

1.Should I feel guilty for what I said to Girl A?
2.Am I any better than the Girl A who cheated on me?
3.What should I do about Girl B?
4.What should I do about it all?
5.Is god trying to tell me that I should be with Girl B?

1.No, you shouldn't
2.Fuck it
3.Date with her if you like her
4.Do not regret anything.
5.Ask yourself.

[PANZERCATWAGON]

I am also disturbed by all the fat jokes in this thread. I agree with Bone Collector here. All women, in my eyes, no matter how attractive or unattractive they are, are the same. (Unless it's an extreme case) Know why? Because they have the same features. They all have eyes... They all have noses... They all (Well, they should) have breasts... They all have ears... They all have eyes... They're all the same, dammit... they're all human beings, which should be enough, but everyone in this world is so superficial and shallow nowadays. <_<

I say you should go with Girl B, although The Geologist did make a good point about the fact that you didn't even have a relationship with Girl A because you never really got to know her. I still say go with Girl B...

Yeah and about Geologists post, I don't get why it makes him a hypocrite. He always liked Girl B and made a wrong turning with Girl A, so forgetting about Girl A and staying with Girl B is basically setting him self straight. Plus I don't think Girl A did anything wrong anyways, you weren't in a relationship with her, so she can sleep with whoever she wants. It's up to her if she wants to do that.

So basically, just ... whatever I lost my thought of train and now I'm bored.

In any case you shouldn't regret anything, never forget the past but don't dwell on it, just get on with your life. And go outside more.

[mar77a]

No.

[Dascoo]

Meeting someone over the internet isn't that bad, you just got to know em. Before I met that person, she gave me her myspace, webcam yada yada yada....we were cool.

[PANZERCATWAGON]

Meeting someone over the internet isn't that bad, you just got to know em. Before I met that person, she gave me her myspace, webcam yada yada yada....we were cool.

You're Asian.

It's different.

[papercut]

hahhhaha

Girl B isnt fat, look at her arms. It's just her face and the poor camera position. Notice how the camera is looking up to her in Girl B, and in Girl A, the camera is looking down on her like shes cute and sweet. Girl B needs a better picture to be judged.

Girl A is pretty noice though. Dyed hair has always turned me on with every girl I've seen. And she appears to be the type I'd look into, because emo chicks always turned me on, as long as they weren't depressed all the time.

Girl B, again has a bad pic.

So Girl A is got a dude, and Girl B doesnt. Go for Girl B, especially since you said you think she's hot in your eyes. I don't think she's that bad as some of the other dudes put it, But I've seen better. But you can't have it all either. So go for it.

However, I would also prefer to mention that you're getting to old for meeting girls online. It's a lot easier to lie online than it is in person. Knowing someone in person lets you know who they really are, but online you can hide a lot of the bad stuff and only show off the good stuff. I think you should refer back to this thread

[The Bone Collector]

I am also disturbed by all the fat jokes in this thread. I agree with Bone Collector here. All women, in my eyes, no matter how attractive or unattractive they are, are the same. (Unless it's an extreme case) Know why? Because they have the same features. They all have eyes... They all have noses... They all (Well, they should) have breasts... They all have ears... They all have eyes... They're all the same, dammit... they're all human beings, which should be enough, but everyone in this world is so superficial and shallow nowadays. <_<

I say you should go with Girl B, although The Geologist did make a good point about the fact that you didn't even have a relationship with Girl A because you never really got to know her. I still say go with Girl B...

Yeah and about Geologists post, I don't get why it makes him a hypocrite. He always liked Girl B and made a wrong turning with Girl A, so forgetting about Girl A and staying with Girl B is basically setting him self straight. Plus I don't think Girl A did anything wrong anyways, you weren't in a relationship with her, so she can sleep with whoever she wants. It's up to her if she wants to do that.

So basically, just ... whatever I lost my thought of train and now I'm bored.

In any case you shouldn't regret anything, never forget the past but don't dwell on it, just get on with your life. And go outside more.

You guys just won the award for the most interesting posts in this thread (sorry Geo).
In the words on the "How to get chix, yo" thread..."The past can not be relived, good or bad"....and "I make no excuses for my  desires as a man"

Thanks guys....I'll stick with Girl B

[Blade]

I say rethink it.

Girl A, didn't really do anything wrong, but she looks like she will anyway.

Girl B, Friends with Girl A, is basically backstabbing her best friend, not to mention you haven't even met her and she probably is just like her friend, because she did go behind her back and all.

Seriously, you still have the chance, get as far away from these 2 as possible, there are so many other girls...

btw i laughed at the harpoon joke as well as most of the CC jokes.

[1010011010]

Physical appearance is all that matters. Personality, intelligence, communication and similar likes are just distractions.

[Mancer]

Thread proves why we need bash pit back. I want to insult you, so badly.

[Camping_carl]

Thread proves why we need bash pit back. I want to insult you, so badly.

Gives mancer a high five.

Anyways.. Girl A looks like she can deepthroat Anything and can ride you until the next day.... looks light cute.. her nose is not cool.. but oh well you gotta live with some mitakes of nature... her eyes rule... She might be loose.. but you can tighten her up good put ice on her gina.. You know what i mean..

now you gotta think of it this way.. I think of a relationship if your going to be with a girl.. Make sure she has a good heart and is loyal.. Also think of her as if you where going to marry her..

Girl B.. Never... I would not even walk by her.. shes like a black cat... dont gross her path.. or get in the way of it... She would produce ugly babies, After sex shes the type to smell bad, She will probley keep away from girl A b ecause girl A is hottier.. and she knows it..

girl A.. id probley sleep with... you know to test her out...

Girl B Doesnt look like she has a chest.. and shes a big birtha woman.. :\

Lets eleminate Girl B and go looka t your myspace friends to see if we can find another.

[1010011010]

Why isn't Carl banned yet?

[Camping_carl]

Why isn't Carl banned yet?

Ahh for your information my name is camping_carl
whos this carl man you speak of

[The Bone Collector]

Anyways.. Girl A looks like she can deepthroat Anything and can ride you until the next day.... looks light cute.. her nose is not cool.. but oh well you gotta live with some mitakes of nature.

You are a mistake of nature...the way you talk about women.

I hope you get shot in Iraq...seriously....coz you're an asswipe!

[The Geologist]

Why isn't Carl banned yet?

He is a fixture of these forums.  A man among men...and at the moment, a man among many sweaty men in the desert.

[Camping_carl]

Anyways.. Girl A looks like she can deepthroat Anything and can ride you until the next day.... looks light cute.. her nose is not cool.. but oh well you gotta live with some mitakes of nature.

You are a mistake of nature...the way you talk about women.

I hope you get shot in Iraq...seriously....coz you're an asswipe!

cause im an asswipe.. thats awesome.

Your the one internet dating.... penishat..
You obvously are the crap saying you like this girl and she likes you then she cheats on you

Look who is the fool now

[The Bone Collector]

If you were me, you'd understand....

An Admin can feel free to lock this now...as its just going to turn into a flame war

[The Geologist]

Locked by request.