Author Topic: Girl/Relationship Problems (Read 7085 times)

LeetFidle · « **on:** December 27, 2008, 01:03:41 pm »

Well, The love of my life, just recently said some stuff that really broke my heart. We are of a special Religion, that binds us to rules we have to follow(no dateing till old enough/no sex). So she has decided that we should not talk to each other for awhile, I Know its Right, But when she said it, it TORE MY HEART OUT(i had to put it back in to stop the bleeding).

But gosh im trying to stay loyal to it and not talk to her to make her know i follow the rules. Its just that we got soo far in our relationship, that i cant stop thinking about her. I wasnt even in it for the sex, i loved her for who she was. This is a not a religon bashing topic, i was just reaching out for help, If anyone knows how to cure a broken heart(im not going to strip club). Because Playing our favorite songs is not working at all.

a-4-year-old · « **Reply #1 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:24:45 pm »

so you came to a game forum for relationship talk.

Good luck with that.

LeetFidle · « **Reply #2 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:26:12 pm »

Were would i go? I always come here. Thanks a lot buddy

a-4-year-old · « **Reply #3 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:30:07 pm »

http://xkcd.com/55/

LeetFidle · « **Reply #4 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:33:59 pm »

Thats not helping me at all.

Godefroy · « **Reply #5 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:36:08 pm »

If it's your religious beliefs that are keeping you from seeing her, then I'd say there's nothing you can do. $:-\$

LeetFidle · « **Reply #6 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:40:40 pm »

$:-\$

But im asking for a way to take my mind off it. VIdeo games dont do it anymore. and i wish they did.

Godefroy · « **Reply #7 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:42:05 pm »

Watch a funny movie.

LeetFidle · « **Reply #8 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:45:22 pm »

Heh well, last movie i saw, Me and her were all touch feely (yesterday actualy) so that wont work.

Mangled* · « **Reply #9 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:50:12 pm »

If a girl needs space then give her space but make it clear how you feel and don't hold back when it comes to honesty.

With regards to your religion, I'm not great at giving advice. Ask yourself what is more important: Following your heart or following a set of rules you were born into purely by chance.

PANZERCATWAGON · « **Reply #10 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:52:19 pm »

ive got some advice leetfidle

grow a pair of balls

LeetFidle · « **Reply #11 on:** December 27, 2008, 01:53:37 pm »

Thank you so much *mangled.

Yes before she stoped talking to me, she let me give one last Txt, which i poured my soul into, I didnt hold back honesty or nothin.

And, Both her and I are strong in our faith, Avoiding the rules and going for love, would make her question me.

@PANZERCATWAGON: apparently you dont know TRUE love.

Mangled* · « **Reply #12 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:00:26 pm »

Under no circumstances give up. Settle for nothing less than self-fulfillment.

At the end of the day you can only be yourself and can only make the choices you are aware of. Retrospect is useless unless it can be learnt from rather than thought on.

Plus girls are the hysterical and irrational side of the species, so take it all with a pinch of salt.

PANZERCATWAGON · « **Reply #13 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:03:05 pm »

Quote from: LeetFidle on December 27, 2008, 01:53:37 pm

@PANZERCATWAGON: apparently you dont know TRUE love.

apparently neither do you

LeetFidle · « **Reply #14 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:04:54 pm »

Well *mangled, the problem is, Is she wanting me to stop txting her, or does she want me to Break down and txt her soo much, to see how i feel for her?

Its so confuseing.

Graham · « **Reply #15 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:06:22 pm »

Take panzers advice, grow some balls. Don't take Mangleds advice when it comes to religion.

That is about all you really need from this thread.

Also how old are you leetfidle?

LeetFidle · « **Reply #16 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:07:01 pm »

17 altho it says im 16.

Graham · « **Reply #17 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:09:36 pm »

Oh teenagers...

LeetFidle · « **Reply #18 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:10:20 pm »

I had respect for you â€ . Please Show a little respect for me.

EDIT: i may be a teenager, But i have loved this girl for 5 years, Im not typical, i dont go,"Hey! sexy body! love me?". I have thought about having a relationship with her for a long time, Not for the sex.

Graham · « **Reply #19 on:** December 27, 2008, 02:18:02 pm »

You are still a kid, relax. You don't know about true love even though you think you do. More than likely this is just a small bump on the road you are making into 20 car pile-up. This chick may be the lid to your pot but you spazzing out and being all needy isn't the way to make her fall deeper in love with you is it?

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Author Topic: Girl/Relationship Problems (Read 7085 times)